Trust

I consider myself a trusting person. Sure, I have my doubts on occasion, but generally speaking I trust others. I can count on one hand the number of times I have lost genuine trust in someone close to me. Maybe I'm a bit naive in the department, but so be it!

Drake and I have been looking for others for a threesome or foursome for nearly two years now. We haven't been terribly successful. We did have one hot threesome shortly after we met. It was with a former lover of mine (not as awkward as it might sound!).

The issue is that Drake is very particular about the type of men and women he wants to bring into the fold. He won't hook up with others simply because they're willing. He wants to be sure that we play and have fun in a safe environment.

I appreciate that.

For example, he met with three different men last week for a possible threesome. He said that they were all decent guys, but he clicked with only one of them.

I should add that Drake is straight.

Drake recently ditched his old, private email account and opened a new, joint account between him and me. I have full access to the account. Our agreement is that he reads the emails first and I read and delete them. We have a system to avoid any confusion.

This is a whole new level of trust and I am thrilled about it. He has told me all along that he has nothing to hide in his search. Thus the reason for the joint account.

Why am I not more involved in the initial meetings? I am turned on by the element of surprise and Drake and I prefer to keep it that way. We have met together with several couples, but again, being surprised does turn me on. I trust him to make good choices.

I am happy to say that I have faith and trust in Drake. He is an incredibly wonderful man.